
A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt.
He said, 'I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is the
vengeful, violent one, the other wolf is the loving compassionate one.' The
grandson asked him, 'Which wolf will win the fight in your heart?' The grandfather
answered, 'The one I feed.'
How do we avoid feeding the vengeful and violent wolf?
This wolf is very attractive and without any hardwork in short run and but can be detrimental to us in long run.
The other wolf does not seem to be attractive in short run but can be very fruitful in life in longer run.
We are in this type of cross roads most of the times in our daily life.
The best way to to resolve this type of dilemma is at the individual level,the changes we need to do is in our conscious level of mind every time we face such situations.
One way is to not to take the decisions ourselves.This does not mean we should everytime consult someone else.Many a times its not possible for an individual is because of the privacy.
So whats the way out ?Who will take the decision for us?
Treat ourselves as a company and like companies important decisions by putting up the proposal in front of the Board of Directors,we should appoint a virtual Board of Directors.
In the Board we should keep our family members,important persons in our life ,career and also we can appoint certain personalities Mahatma Gandhi,Nelson Mandela,etc.
Before taking any decision the best thing is bring the proposal in front of our Board.Let the board members take a decision for us.
What will our kids say about this decision?What will our parents say about this decision?What will our teachers say?What will eminent personalities say about this?
By this practice we can always feed the good wolves in our heart.
So who's on your Board ?
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